Friday, August 27, 2010

All is not lost

Well, this date went pretty well.  I went out with the Alaska guy.  (I have nick-names for all my dates to help me keep them straight in my head and when I tell everyone at work.)  He vacationed in Alaska, he's not from there:)  He is an active guy.  He rides RAGBRAI every year, which is a plus, likes to kayak, fish, etc.  Kind of like an old ex of mine except he LIKES to work out.  Nice dinner, a drink at the bar after, and now I'm home.  Kind of early, I know, but like I said, it went well.  I'm not sure if we will go out again...we didn't really establish that.  We did the "nice to meet you" thing, and then we hugged, so....we'll see.  I would actually go out with this one again, so I will wait to see what happens.

On a side note, the Gray's Lake guy, whom I have never gone out with, wants to get a bite to eat sometime on a strictly non-date capacity.  Back story: he was one of the first guys I met on Match.  We were going to go on a walk around Gray's Lake for our first date since he doesn't drink, but things came up and it never happened.  He made me nervous when he told me he thought I had a "good heart."  I thought, boy, are you going to be disappointed when you meet me cuz no one I know would ever describe me that way!  But, we became friends on Facebook, and we actually met face to face on RAGBRAI.  So now....a bite.  (But not a date!)

And then we come back to the douche bag.  I won't capitalize his name.  There's a lot of back story there...we went out a few times.  Suffice to say it ended....not necessarily badly, but it was supposed to be over.  I mean, a text that says, "It was nice meeting you and I hope you find what your looking for" pretty much says it all, right?  Wrong.  HE sent ME that text after I told him on no uncertain terms that I wasn't going to play the "back up girl" role.  That was last week.  Today, he sent me a text asking me if I had plans.  WTF?  Anyway...to be continued on that guy.  Can't seem to get rid of him.

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