Tuesday, November 16, 2010

He's Just Not That Into You

And thank goodness, cuz I definitely wasn't into him!  A week and a half ago, I went on my final date with the Alaska guy.  We went to dinner (which was good) and then to a movie.  We went to see Due Date.  It reminded me of the time in college when I went on a first date with a guy I barely knew to the movie American Pie.  Awkward!!!!  There were a couple of scenes in this movie that really made me feel uncomfortable with my date.  And since that was the 6th, yes 6th, time I'd been out with him, I could tell things weren't getting any easier.  I thought I would let him pick me up, giving him the chance to walk me to my door at the end of the evening and give me a real kiss, rather than the chaste one I got the last time.  Needless to say, that didn't happen.  I believe I may have leaned over in the car for a short kiss.  Blah.  I realized that after 6 times of seeing each other, if things weren't getting any easier, they never would.  There just wasn't any chemistry.  So I dreaded the following Monday.  Usually he calls me on Mondays.  How on Earth was I supposed to tell him I just wasn't feeling it?  Alas, the feeling must be mutual, because not only did I not hear from him that Monday, I haven't heard from him in a week and a half.  Easy come, easy go.  (And at least I got out of delivering the final blow;)

So what am I doing now?  I'm done with Match.  Actually, I'm done with online dating.  At least for the rest of the year.  I was supposed to go on a date last night, but something came up with his child, so he had to cancel.  He previously didn't have a name, since he was a friend of a friend of a friend.  But, unwisely, he forwarded me a poop joke on my phone (if only he knew my aversion to all conversations regarding that topic) so now, he is the Poop Joke guy.  Not very flattering, I know. 

Also, I facebook stalked my cousin's boyfriend's cousin.  They were telling me that he is single, so I scoped him out.  Not bad.  Don't know if anything will develop there, but who knows. 

All I know is that being single is much easier.  Has dating always been this hard?

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