Like you, he's not a smoker

Come on Match.com, can't you come up with anything better than that??  Everyday, I look at my 5 daily matches, and more often than not, 2 of the things it says are, Like you, he's not a smoker and Like you, he's the oldest child.  I'm pretty sure I am not going to build a lasting relationship with someone having those things as the main things we have in common.  Isn't there a little more to go on than that?

Okay, okay, I am texting Alaska guy right now since I haven't heard from him since Sunday....done.

Guess who I heard from?  You're right....BDB.  He asked me what I was doing for lunch this week.  I told him I was off tomorrow, so he said, "Friday...you, me, your place, lunch?"  I said....how about we meet someplace?  He said that works too, he was glad I was at least talking to him, and like a week after he told me about it, he stopped seeing this other girl.  He said he was an idiot (well duh!) and he missed me.  My resonse was, "Where do you want to eat?"  I will hear him out, on neutral ground, but I haven't even seen him for over a month, so what does he really expect from me?

I started talking (emailing) a guy who knows my cousin really well from college.  Small world.  Of course I texted my cousin yesterday to ask about him, and he said that he was really shy and I should probably meet him a couple of times.  We'll see....he feels lazy compared to me since I told him I was running 5 races in 4 weekends.  I don't think he's lazy, this is just my crazy time.